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It is gratifying and overwhelming that my book, "An Elephant Doesn't Marry A Giraffe - Everything I Learned As A Divorce Attorney", has received universal, critical acclaim, as reflected in the effusive five-star reviews posted by its readers.


Recently, I had the distinct pleasure of doing a podcast with Divorce Attorney Extraordinaire, Corey Shapiro, on his Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Podcast. During our wide-ranging conversation, Corey and I discussed my book, as well as many of the core principles included therein, such as when to consult with a divorce attorney, how to hire the best attorney for your case, how to avoid the critical mistakes which undermine your divorce case and how to insulate your children from the harmful effects of divorce and how to move past your divorce in a healthy way.


This fascinating discussion is now available on You Tube as well as Corey's Website - Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind . Anyone who is contemplating a divorce, or already involved in, one will find the podcast invaluable and interesting. If you have any questions about the process of divorce and separation or would like to leave a comment you can contact me through my website, www.divorcedeverafter.com or write to me at Ron@divorcedeverafter.com .


 Please continue to support the book, which in available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Goodreads and Draft2Digital. and keep the reviews coming. Thank you so much.




Some of you may have missed it, but yesterday was National Ex-Spouse Day. Falling exactly two months after Valentine's Day and one day before Tax Day, the holiday was created in 1987 by the Reverend Ronald Coleman, who hoped this holiday would become a day of forgiveness and healing.


His premise was that couples who were going through or had gone through a difficult divorce needed to let go of all the anger, hurt, and bitterness to effectively go on with their lives. In my recent article in Your Tango magazine, attached below, I discuss a number of ways to celebrate this holiday, both constructive and otherwise. Please feel free in your comments to discuss whether and how you celebrated this day.






What is "phubbing" and why is it destroying people's marriages and intimate relationships?

It has often been said that the opposite of love is not hate but apathy. No one likes to be ignored or disregarded. "Phubbing" is a word coined some time ago by combining the words "phone" and "snubbing". As it relates to marriage and other romantic relationships, it is the practice of ignoring one's spouse or romantic partner to pay attention to one's phone or other mobile device. This problem, some say it is more of an addiction, is wreaking havoc on such relationships. How big a problem is this? I explore all of this issue in my recently published article in Your Tango magazine. Learn more about this phenomenon and how to save your love relationship by reading the attached article.



Ronald Bavero is a divorce attorney, legal educator, and author of the critically acclaimed, five-star book, “An Elephant Doesn’t Marry A Giraffe – Everything I Learned As A Divorce Attorney” - available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Good Reads and Draft2Digital. He also maintains a website of information and valuable articles about the process of divorce and separation - www.divorcedeverafter.com.

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