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During my extensive career as an attorney, I have seen many divorce clients sabotage themselves more completely and effectively than any spouse or adverse attorney could possibly do. There is no question that anger, hurt and rejection can deprive divorcing parties of all vestiges of rationality and common sense. But what are the top five mistakes that people frequently make and how can you avoid them?


I explore all of this in my article just published in "Your Tango" - an online magazine with millions of readers. I am pleased to have been invited by Your Tango to be a featured writer and expert on the subject of divorce. Many of my previous articles have appeared on this site. To view the current article on the five things you should never do in your divorce, click on the link below.


 


**Ronald Bavero is a highly regarded divorce attorney, legal educator and author of the critically acclaimed, five-star book, “An Elephant Doesn’t Marry A Giraffe – Everything I Learned As A Divorce Attorney.” This book is available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Goodreads and Draft2Digital. He also maintains a website www.divorcedeverafter.com where you can find more information about his book and other many other interesting and valuable articles about the process of divorce and separation. As noted above he has now been invited to share his wisdom as a divorce expert in "Your Tango" magazine



Some of you may have missed it, but yesterday was National Ex-Spouse Day. Falling exactly two months after Valentine's Day and one day before Tax Day, the holiday was created in 1987 by the Reverend Ronald Coleman, who hoped this holiday would become a day of forgiveness and healing.


His premise was that couples who were going through or had gone through a difficult divorce needed to let go of all the anger, hurt, and bitterness to effectively go on with their lives. In my recent article in Your Tango magazine, attached below, I discuss a number of ways to celebrate this holiday, both constructive and otherwise. Please feel free in your comments to discuss whether and how you celebrated this day.







Since the dawn of time, people in relationships have memorialized their love and commitment to each other by getting individual or couple tattoos. However, there are four compelling reasons to think twice before getting such a tattoo, including the tattoo jinx.


All of this is explored in my recent article in Your Tango magazine. You are going to want to read this article so that you do not end up saying "what was I inking?"



For more stories, tips and cautionary advice make sure you read my five star rated book, "An Elephant Doesn't Marry A Giraffe - Everything I Learned As A Divorce Attorney,"

available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble and Draft2Digital.


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