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In my divorce practice I have met with thousands of people who are involved in long-term unhealthy, unsatisfying or abusive relationships. This breathe of experience has caused me to focus on how and why people stay in these toxic relationships. More importantly, I have formulated five keys to breaking free of these relationships.


All of this is explored in the article I wrote and which was published on Your Tango - an online magazine with millions of readers. I am pleased to have been invited by Your Tango to be a writer and divorce expert. More of my articles will be appearing on this site. To view the current article on getting out of an unhealthy or toxic relationship click on the link below.



**Ronald Bavero is a highly regarded divorce attorney, legal educator and author of the critically acclaimed, five-star book, “An Elephant Doesn’t Marry A Giraffe – Everything I Learned As A Divorce Attorney.” This book is available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Goodreads and Draft2Digital. He also maintains a website www.divorcedeverafter.com where you can find more information about his book and other interesting and valuable articles about the process of divorce and separation. As noted above he has now been invited to share his wisdom as a divorce expert on "Your Tango"

Updated: Dec 15, 2024


Feeling blindsided? Feeling overwhelmed and paralyzed. Feeling like you don't even where to start or where to go for help? These are many of the feelings that people experience when their spouse tells them " I want a divorce."

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The answer to all of these questions is to read this book, even before you talk to a divorce attorney. As verified by the effusive reviews from divorcing spouses, former clients, judges, mediators, therapists and divorce coaches, this book is a goldmine of invaluable information and advice. Reading this may be the most important thing you do for yourself and your children. It is currently available on Amazon, in digital, paperback and hardcover formats, as well as Barnes & Noble, and Google Books.



Many of you know that I have written a book filled with invaluable advice and amazing, true stories about the world of separation and divorce. The book is entitled "An Elephant Doesn't Marry A Giraffe - Everything I Learned As A Divorce Attorney."


I am pleased and proud to tell you that the book has been accepted for publication and is now available for purchase. Three versions of the book, (Hardcopy, Paperback and Ebook), can be found in the Amazon Book Store. To view the books and select your favorite version from Amazon you can use this link. You can also find the Ebook and Paperback versions on the Barnes and Noble site, using this Barnes and Noble link as well as Apple Ebooks and Google Ebooks from this link.


A book is only a beginning for a writer. A reader completes it. So, why and who should read this book?


In the first instance, this book is for everyone who is, has or is about to go through a divorce. Or perhaps you have a client, friend or relative who is need of some direction. What is unique about this book on divorce is that its invaluable advice does not come from dry, solemn pronouncements or preachy sermons but rather from a multitude of true, compelling stories which dramatically illustrate, in practical terms, what divorcing spouses need to know and how to avoid the critical mistakes which undermine their divorce cases.


For those who have already ridden on the matrimonial merry-go-round, these true divorce stories also represent validation that the process of divorce can test everyone’s sanity.


Finally, many people will read the book for the sheer laugh-out-loud comedy and intrigue of people involved in epic divorce battles that make the movie "The War of the Roses" seem tame by comparison.


Once you have finished reading the book, in whatever version or on whichever site, please consider leaving your review of the book. Reviews are the life-blood of all published books. Books need customer reviews to survive in the same way that we humans need air. Even a few words are helpful. You can create a review by clicking on this Amazon link or input the URL into the browser of your computer, smart phone or PDA. For Barnes and Noble or the other sites follow the directions for publishing a review.


Finally, thank you all, for your support and encouragement in the completion of this endeavor. Please purchase the book today and feel free to give me your honest feedback after you have finished reading it. You can reach me through my website www.divorcedeverafter.com


Ronald J. Bavero , Esq.

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